Tuesday, March 08, 2005

My birthday party

It was good.... i wanted to write abt this b4 but simply didn't hav time

It was my 21st. So parents wanted 2 hav a party, not on my b'day but on the Sunday b4 it. Our family is not into parties. I should've only had abt 5 bday parties 4 me! So i was overjoyed, (Duh!!!!) started making the guest list, etc, etc, etc...

After some time, I started gettin worried abt the massive expense I ws going to cause my parents & started thinking if it's worth the whole thing. To start w, it's not a massive change in my life!!! Next day I would wake up the same way & everyone is going to be the same way. it's not that i'm gonna die or some thing!!!

Anyways.............. Grandma got sick!!!! well, not exactly sick but docs suspected a cancer!! Obviously I got bloody shocked. She stays in my place & we're close.

So.............. I cancelled the whole thing!!! I wasn't in a state of mind to have a party.. Even though it would be the last party I'd get b4 my graduation (or my wedding!!!!!!!!?????????, nah!). So i almost finished undoing all the invitation, wn 1 of my uncles explained how miportant the whole birthday thing is for my grandma. With a bit of unluck, it just could be the last party she would attend to in this life!!!!

So I decided 2 hav it anyway, but only inviting only a quarter or so in the massive guest list.. I wanted to have a lotta friends by my side & all, but I jus invited my relatives, cos I did the party for my grandma, & I wanted to have her party in the way she would've wanted, with her sons & daughters + their next generation.

I hope she was happy w e party.

Anyways......... she's alright now. She underwent a surgery on my birthday, which is the 1st of march. Docs Got the confounded thin out o her body, which wasn't really a cancer. & she's now safe at home!!! Thank goodness

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